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[quote=Anonymous]You need to give up on the idea that this can happen in a way that is not stressful. It will be stressful regardless of how much they plan or don't plan. I've seen people refuse to move and be fine and randomly die in their own bed one night. I've seen people go through a move, have a super tough time adjusting (common with memory or cognitive issues) and then not live long enough to make the move worthwhile. I've seen people love their new place, I've seen them hate it or worse, be unsafe there. And of course financially it's a bad deal to move and then not live long. So it's really anyone's guess how this will go and what's the best and safest option. Lay down the burden of trying to control this, OP. If you really think they're not moving because they mentally can't process making a decision, that's one thing. But sometimes you just have to accept that staying where they are *is* a decision. Even if you don't agree with it.[/quote]
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