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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP and I totally disagree with the others that this isn’t fulfilling. It’s maybe  not fulfilling to sleep with people you don’t like and it’s certainly going to feel bad to be deceptive, but a casual fling where everyone is getting what they want can be so delightful!

Think of it this way, you’re having a full relationship with the person. It’s just not the same kind as a committed dating relationship in pursuit of marriage. You’re enjoying each other on different terms. What will hurt your soul is if it’s not actually what you or they want or have agreed to. [/quote]

Thank you for saying this PP! I’m so tired of people saying or telling me that it’s unfulfilling, will drain my soul blah blah.

The last guy I had a thing with had all these hang ups about religion and stuff and kept telling me I deserved better and I should know my worth. I just wanted to have some fun with him and he was such a stick in the mud, it really turned me off. I felt very judged (and rejected) even though he was doing the exact same as me but not judging himself. [/quote]

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