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[quote=Anonymous]yeah, this is why I went semi-ballistic when DH was back in touch with his ex, secretly (not a friend mind you, but someone who had a strong hold on him for a long time and who he admitted strong, complicated feelings fore even early in our marriage). He saw no harm in it, but I felt that he was in denial. The motivation, to answer your question, is often about the ego--does that person still find me attractive? Will I still feel a spark? do I unconsciously want to sabotage my marriage? etc. If you're smart, leave well enough alone. [/quote]
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