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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your parents have already visited you 3x this year? Do you mean in 2024 so in just 6 months they e visited 3x already?! Or do you mean since June 2023 they’ve come 3x? How long do they stay when they visit you?

You need to limit all visits (their visits to you and your visits to them) to 4-5 ‘nights, max. My parents live a 3hr plane ride away too. They used to always stay a full week. They never asked, just booked tickets and told us. I finally had to tell them it has to be 4-5 nights at most going forward. It was hard for me to do and they weren’t happy but they have adhered to it and it honestly makes visits w them, which I used to absolutely dread, much better. [/quote]

OP here. Yes, 3x thus year so far. My mom declares they’re coming and they come for at least a week. They stay at a hotel but literally sit there all day until the kids are home from school or activities. They retired very well, big pensions, but do not want to
So much else but plan to see our kids. I tell my mom when to come but she does her own thing. For example, don’t come the week kids start school because things are crazy, but she makes reservations anyway. [/quote]

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