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[quote=Anonymous]Trying to explain but in a short way. My son was born here while I was with my EX American citizen ( we would get married in 2 months after my son was born) I came as a tourist. After our son born he start to abuse me phisically and mentally all the time. I didnt know that I could call the cops for help I really thought they would just take me back to my country without my son so I suffered in silence ( working as a nanny, petsitter etc..) taking my son with me or leaving with babysitter for about $100 a week...now after 3 years, I find out online that I wouldnt be deported and my son and I could ask for help :( so I end up living at the shelter.... which was clean, people helped me ... I couldnt proof everything and I couldnt apply for U-VISA. mysons father got depressed and he seems ''changed'' my son miss him so much and I went back with him. my life started to be a nightmare again, HE promise me to marry me and we could have a ''normal''life since then I could have my status changed and after a while I would have my green card which would let me DRIVE,WORK,BE ON HIS HEALTH INSURANCE etc.. My son was totally potty trained and happy with ''mom and daddy together'' but I knew I would end up hurted again because he has alcohol and angry issues, possessive and aggressive with me ONLY he was good with our son. I packed my things and left... my son now lives with him and I'm depressed without a job and thank GOD I have someone that helps me here and there. I wish I could have my papers, or a GREAT lawyer so I could do something. my son talks to me on the phone almost everyday (when hes dad calls me). Really hope a lot people are not in te same situation as I am.. and if anyone knows ANYTHING HOW TO CHANGE THIS SITUATION PLEASE POST HERE I WILL BE CHECKING OFTEN. THANK YOU.[/quote]
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