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[quote=Anonymous]Agree it’s good he’s being honest, but pretty sad it’s such a low bar that we give men credit for this. OP I’d steer clear of this lifestyle. All the hemming and hawing about “ethical non-monogamy” and the “poly-lifestyle” are internet buzzwords for a phenomenon as old as time, ie folks who want to have a lot of sex. Great! They should, as long as it’s safe and consensual. But I find all these ethereal discussions about the emotions surrounding it are often designed to elevate it to something it’s not (a more “enlightened” life than boring monogamous folks) and/or pressure unsure people into accepting relationships with no boundaries. This doesn’t even address the health risks; in my experience older men do not want to wrap it up, period. See the recent WaPo article on the rising age of STDs. Bottom line, do what you want but follow your gut, this guy seems like he’s on the page that suits him best: his own. [/quote]
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