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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The problem is not vague. The problem is that DH no longer participates in the marriage, and only extremely minimally in the family. This has been going on for several years and he refuses to try individual or couples therapy. The kids and I experience increased economic stability because of the marriage. I just worry for the example that’s being set. DH literally doesn’t even say hello to us when he comes home. He just lives in his home office not interacting with anyone. He even sleeps in his office and doesn’t come down for dinner. I fear the kids internalize this and feel unwanted. I earn a decent amount of money but our lives would take a serious financial hit with divorce. I would no way be able to afford our current home or neighborhood.[/quote] This makes it sound like there's something else going on. Alcoholism, drug addiction, porn addiction, serious depression. That's not a checked out husband, that's someone who's got a serious problem with something. You should work on figuring that out because if it's not a case of he's just a boring inattentive person, divorce won't solve it.[/quote]
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