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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]op Instead of fearing for the worst why not sympathize with her? Your dd probably is feeling nervous and let's face it becoming a grown up is tough. The twenties are a tough time! However, I think you need to address your anxiety, op and your "catastrophizing" of something that may or may not happen! https://www.businessinsider.com/what-catastrophising-means-and-how-to-stop-it-2018-3?op=1 Please don't pass your anxiety along to your daughter. Just because she is complaining about working does not mean she will "failure to launch" She already has a job lined up. Just let her vent! Since when is that a crime?[/quote] Nothing bad has happened yet. Please don’t react to her sharing her feelings by cutting off support. It’s fine to reduce or eliminate support, but doing so for this reason will just lead to reduced sharing. Does/could she have anxiety?[/quote]
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