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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish we had good data on bi men because many of us are still in the closet.[/quote]

I agree with PP that it’s just fine to stay closeted once you e chosen to commit to someone.[/quote]

Who teaches this? It was totally not fine. Eventually this type of person cheats but they've convinced themselves that the spouse doesn't need to know because now it's been too long. Sexuality is the basis of romantic relationships. Be honest people.[/quote]

Most bisexual people are in monogamous relationships. To paint a picture that all bisexual people will eventually cheat is classic biphobia. Most bi people never cheat. [/quote]

I'm responding to someone who says they are closeted and haven't told their spouse. So obviously they feel the need to keep this part of them hidden. You think that type of person can repress their sexuality well? I do not. Not to mention that person is giving themselves leeway to be dishonest to their partner already in a very important aspect of their relationship. I take issue with how no one has addressed this and some offhand comment about bisexual people not cheating is not terribly convincing without any actual data and understanding of what people cheat and what people don't in this group.

Why not respond to the person who says they are closeted? I never see anyone on here have a problem with closeted people when in fact it is extremely unhealthy and dishonest behavior to everyone involved. Lets see you respond with more passion to the closeted people here doing real damage, emotionally, physically, and financially both to LGBTQ and straight spouses before worrying about some article on statistics that likely is extremely off. Bisexual people are not at all on the lower end of groups of people that cheat and closeted people are definitely on the high end of groups of people that cheat.[/quote]

Being closeted is a hard way to live. If you’re out to yourself and you haven’t told your partner then that is absolutely dishonest and wrong. That being said, I don’t know his circumstances and neither do you. You don’t get to judge someone that’s living closeted. Usually they don’t feel safe to come out or they would have. Straight people should make it safe for every queer person to be out.
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