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[quote=Anonymous]Your mom may not be able to care for him physically much longer. She's also at risk of physical injury herself, either because he falls or because he becomes physically abusive as his mind deteriorates. I think the best thing you could do would be to get him into a memory care facility, assuming that's financially feasible. NOT one where they live together. She needs to be free to live the rest of her life without his abuse. Maybe she's too codependent to have any independent will left after enduring his abuse for years, but she's never going to find out if she doesn't get away from him. I also don't understand how you can describe him as a loving dad, frankly. Maybe also some therapy for yourself? [/quote]
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