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[quote=Anonymous]Different kid issues but same problem and not limited to kid stuff. DH just digs in his heels on certain things (he is extremely rigid) and will not consider my position even if mine is based on research and careful consideration and his is based on two seconds of knee jerk thinking.

It is frustrating because in order to be the demanding wife I just give into him sometimes and just have to live with the consequences of his bad and poorly thought out choices. He also sometimes holds us hostage to his choices about his own life so that we have to arrange our schedule and life around his career and personal choices that sometimes don't make sense.

I know I sound like I don't respect him at all. He also has good qualities I'm not getting into here. But biggest issue in our marriage is his rigidity around decision making and refusal to listen to me or EVER defer to me in situations where I truly do know more. I also think this situation got way worse after we had a kid because it's harder for me to just say "ok do it your way" and then I figure something else out for myself. Now our kid suffers the consequences too. It's hard[/quote]

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