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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These are two different situations. One is a rude house guest—offering three different conditioner options is above and beyond what you need to do. Husband having an interest you think is too time consuming and silly is different. As a husband who enjoys making nice things and sharing with friends, my wife's "just get it at wegmans, no one will know the difference" drives me berserk. It's genuinely something that matters to me, and makes me happy to provide my friends and family with nice things I've made. Can I be a little more aware of time and effort and its impact on certain days, sure... but it's not an example of inherent fussiness. Being a real B about the host's selection of conditioners is. But REALLY what sounds like is going on is that you've had enough of your husband's family (including him) already this weekend. Can't change the husband, can learn to cope with in-laws. Good luck![/quote] Do you get that if “it’s genuinely something that matters,” you need to PLAN AHEAD, THINK THINGS THROUGH, and go grocery shopping the night before, earlier in the day, or at some other time that makes zero sense for the departure time? If something is sooooooo important, you take care of it with enough time to also depart at the time you said we needed to depart, point blank period. [/quote]
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