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[quote=Anonymous]It is a combination of good luck and good choices.

Good Luck:
- Being born beautiful or at least not offensive in anyway. No drastic weight issues or physical deformity that would weed you out of the pool for eligible partners. I know looks are not everything but lets be honest, most high quality people do care somewhat about having a spouse that is physically attractive and fit. 
- Being born into a happy functional family where you were loved correctly and learned to form and identify healthy relationship patterns. You seek out what you know.
- Being lucky in not inheriting debilitating mental health or emotional issues. You are a well rounded, happy balanced person.

Good Choices:
- You spot red flags quickly and cut your losses and move on. There is no years of your life wasted on the wrong partner desperately trying to "fix" them or make it work. 
- You learn from your mistakes. If you attract an undesirable partner, you do the work to understand why, learn from your mistakes, and do better next time.
- Actively working on yourself to make yourself someone a good person would want to marry. Are you emotionally stable, financially stable, open minded and loyal? Well your chances of attracting a similar spouse went up considerably! 
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