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Reply to "18 year old son and request for larger basement room"
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[quote=Anonymous]How well do your son and husband get along? Do you have an expectation he is paying rent and he just isn't paying or is their no rent agreement? you can't hold not paying rent against him if that isn't an expectation. Does it really matter if the small room and bathroom are dirty or the big room and bathroom are dirty? Maybe if he had more space and was therefore inviting friends over he would clean the room more for the sake of the friends. If he isn't holding up his bargain for cleanliness I would address this but probably not by digging heels in and keeping him in the small room. I would let him move - the other room is barely used and this sounds to me like a step dad trying to exert some authority/power over a step son he doesn't have a great relationship with who he thinks is spoiled and lazy. [/quote]
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