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[quote=Anonymous]My sister and I have kids who are the same age. I reached out to her because my kid has been behaving poorly and hers is generally very well behaved and I wondered if she had pointers. She told me that her kid is good because she is a good mother. She said she used to be a bad mom to her older kid, but that she realized she was doing a bad job and apologized and treated the younger one better. For context she was very depressed and untreated with first kid. She said I needed to apologize for being a bad mom and do better. I was a bit caught off guard by her comments. I said nothing came to mind that I would apologize for. Was there something she saw that was alarming. She said when my kid was a baby I had a convo with her about how I did not always change her poopy diapers immediately, and waited on my ex to do it sometimes because he didn’t pull his weight with chores. She said she imagines I was a lazy mom in other ways and my kid is acting out because she’s mad about it. I am too close to this situation to see clearly. What do you make of this?[/quote]
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