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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP and coming from public. Its the studying that is the problem. Staying on top of tasks is fine, but the amount of studying for tests is pushing my kid over the edge. I definitely think that better focus in class would be helpful and it certainly is a difference between what was expected in middle vs hs. I don't think ADHD is in play but I guess it could be executive functioning. Not sure. It does seem like a lot to me too though. And regular classes. Not scholars or benilde.[/quote]

Regardless of whether or not ADHD/executive function is at play, if your kid is bright but coasted by in K-8 [b]without ever learning study skills[/b], a high school that is at their level is going to be a new challenge for them to navigate.

If they're doing fine on papers, etc and it's the studying that's killing them, maybe look into a tutor or executive function coach that specializes in teaching studying skills? Kids who are challenged in K-8 often learn how to study organically, but if high school is the first time in your life you've ever truly needed to study, it can be a steep learning curve. [/quote]

I think this might best. We transferred from public to private in middle schools and learning study skills is really well incorporated into the curriculum at most private schools.I can honestly say three years later, my ADHD kid is much better prepared when it comes to outlining, note taking and studying for tests. I think if she would have gone straight into a school like SJC right after public middle school she would have really struggled. Is it possible that SJC has staff to help your DC with study skills or executive functioning? He is probably not studying and preparing efficiently because he does not have the tools, so he is exhausted from doing his version of studying but not seeing the results because he doesn't have the proper tools yet.[/quote]

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