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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She doesn't sound functional to me. [/quote] Agreed. She can feel upset and disappointed. She doesn't get to take it out on you and the kids and blame her parents for it. That's highly dysfunctional. She's spoiling ( yet again) what should be happy occasion. Your DC should be celebrating and having a great time not worrying about mommy's tantrums. I mean your kid is at least 18 years old which means your wife has had 18 + years of knowing how things are. She's actively chosen not to find a different coping mechanism.. She's avoiding therapy because she knows she'd have to face up to her own crap and not blame her parents for everything. So yeah you can show empathy but don't allow her to be emotionally abusive to you and the kids anymore. [/quote]
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