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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he wants back he should come to you, not you move there and disrupt the kids lives. I’m quite sure he will say he can’t relocate. [/quote]

Already suggested and correct. He can’t relocate bc of job that he says “supports the family” but again,[b] finances are actually separate and he pays 10% or less of actual earnings towards child support/expenses[/b].[/quote]

Sounds then like he wants convenient sex and the familiarity of having you around, but would not do one bit more to create an actual home, a shared household.

Just think of the disputes if something expensive happens--a kid needs some extra summer program paid for; the house you all share has a major problem that needs repair; you need a new car after a breakdown or crash because you have to ferry the kids around...He's going to nickel-and-dime you to death over every expense and insist things be split 50/50 etc. It will be a constant thorn in your side. And all this would be happening in an area which is not "home" to you and the kids, so you and they will end up feeling isolated and more dependent on someone who is not really interested in being a family again. And you'd be expected to hav your separate finances while you have just given up a job and are seeking a new one in a new place!

Hard no. [/quote]

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