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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What other options are there available to assist folks looking for places for their elderly parents? I don't have the time or energy (I have my own medical issues) to do the research myself but my aging parent needs to find a place soon - they can no longer live in their own home. [/quote]

I don't have any short cuts. I would suggest that you start with knowing your parent's budget - not the most that they can afford right now, but allowing for a cushion over time. Our parents had very little money so the site needed to take Medicaid at some point during the stay.

Then see what nonprofits are in the area. I only had to do this in one small city, but the nonprofits were far better than the corporations. The staff at the latter can be very kind, but they are overworked, underpaid, and often stressed by the lack of supplies (yes, they don't supply enough adult nappies - can you imagine!). Also consider what will be the most convenient for you if you live locally. I picked a spot for our dad because it was very close to our mom and she could drive there easily, including in the winter. For our mom, I picked the nonprofit as it is the best in the area and kinda on the way home from work for our brother - the best of all the options.

Again, alas, there are no short cuts. Please do not use a referral agency. Their only interest is their pocket book.

Finally, see if the county has a senior agency based in the community. They were also helpful when we were looking. They didn't give the exact spot, but they provided lists and listened. Sometimes that's the best you can get, but still worth it.

GL![/quote]

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