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[quote=Anonymous]He was trying to groom you, it sounds unsuccessfully, which is why he criticized you for refusing to give up control. Grooming may not be abuse, but it's intent is to set up the situation so that abuse can later be safely perpetrated (safely to the abuser -- grooming keeps you from reporting the abuse). You definitely need to talk about this with your current therapist. He should have clear therapy boundaries about how often you contact him -- frankly, only in emergencies. If you have "notes" you wish to discuss in therapy, you should be creating a document that you can put your notes or agenda items on - and there should be a reasonable page limit (like 1/2 - 1 page), short enough so that your therapist can review it prior to your meeting in 5-10 minutes. You should be able to share it with him in a way that doesn't require discussion or feedback outside of meetings. [/quote]
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