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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're thinking about it the wrong way. It's not about persuading them that it would be nicer or more fun. They're refusing because the logistics and stress of moving would be too much for them. They can't process it, it's overwhelming. That's why they're stonewalling you. I would suggest maybe their ability to manage life is not as good as you're believing it is. Older adults can create a great facade from a distance. Go out without your kids and become a fly on the wall, it may be eye-opening.[/quote] I never thought of it that way - it's so hard to see your parents as not capable. My siblings and I are willing to do all the logistical work, but perhaps I need to be more clear in what we can do for them.[/quote] Seems like it's time to change your viewpoint. If you go out alone and stay long enough that they get used to your presence and stop being on their best behavior, you may have a much better sense of it.[/quote]
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