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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I post a lot here... when DH was seriously threatened with divorce, he did a 180... in the right direction.  Therapy was a big part of that.  Avoid therapy because it "isn't your thing" at your own peril.  Our lives are wonderful now, because we did therapy even though it isn't our "thing."[/quote]

We tried in the past… one long session. It was traumatizing for me and I did not want to go back because I had relive everything I was sharing and my soul crushed.  Then as usual I forgive and move on and make up b/c you have a child together and there was love even as in the past so some caring and joint memories…. I’m always the one who has to forgive… [/quote]

Sorry, one miserable therapy session is not going to resolve your issues (I've had MANY miserable and traumatic therapy sessions so I speak from experience).  You didn't get to the point where your marriage was in shambles in one hour, what makes you think one hour with a professional is going to somehow make you feel better?  You're not supposed to feel better, you're supposed to figure out how both of you screwed up your marriage and fix it.  Then you'll feel better.

Or, you can just be the victim forever end up a divorced single mom.  If that's what you want, go for it.[/quote]

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