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[quote=Anonymous]DH has been in such a crappy mood.  He comes home and just starts attacking, criticizing.  He jumps down my throat for not agreeing, not being supportive, for not respecting him, even when I have barely said a word.  I am afraid of saying anything.  He starts yelling when the sink is not completely clean and everything is put in its place and orderly, when I spend at least an hour cleaning every day.  But when he is home on the weekend, and I am away, I come home to a wreck.

He is also just really angry at the world.  Extremely pessimistic.  Keeps telling our children how horrible our world is and how bleak their future is.  Hates his job.  But has no idea what he wants to do.  He is both critical and sarcastic to our children, but also extremely lenient and almost encouraging when it comes to mean and inappropriate behaviors and comments from them.

When he deals with people, he always comes down to their level.  Meaning when people start acting inappropriately or starts raging, he matches it, accepts it, adapts his way of talking to match theirs.  It's opposite to how I deal with it - which is I either walk away or set clear limits for how to talk to me.

Not sure what to do or how to handle.  I have been avoiding interactions because they always make me feel worse. [/quote]

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