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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Since you have known her a long time, I would talk to her.  If these rumors are true, I wouldn’t call her a “horrible” person. Instead, she is weak with some questionable morals. If she fesses up to the affairs, tell her you need some distance from your relationship with her and do a slow fade.[/quote]
It is not just the affairs. If that were the case I would tell her I was disappointed and we could move on. It is the almost pathological need for attention, particularly from men. After her divorce there were several men who expressed interest and she would say horrible things about them - and then the next night be at dinner with them and insist it was just friendly (even though she said very mean things about them the night before). I know people are going to respond with the DCUM favorite "Are you 12" but no, I'm not, that's why I find this behavior problematic. It is almost like middle school mean girl behavior being put on by a woman in her 40s. [/quote]

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