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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If calling it fate makes you more inclined to pursue it, go with that.

To me, whether you believe in fate or not, an opportunity has presented itself. If you're interested, go with it. It doesn't have to be "fate" to be fun. This person may not be a permanent fixture in your life, but they're open to further connection. If you are too, do it.[/quote]

NP. Agree with this post except for one thing: OP, please don't get yourself worked up that "this is fate!" and end up attaching SO much weight to this encounter that you overthink things. Like PP says, an opportunity presented itself. This man is clearly interested enough to want to see you again. Take it one small step at a time. Be prepared for your next meeting to go well or to end up as "He's nice but not for me" -- and to be OK with either outcome. If you have "this is fate, I'm meant to be here" constantly buzzing in the back of your mind the whole time while you see him, you're possibly more likely to have on rose-colored glasses, and be less able to assess whether you and he really are compatible. [/quote]

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