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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the story of my life with my in-laws. They have always been involved with the kids but their sense of entitlement in our life is mind blowing. They think we are taking them on vacation every year (and paying). They were showing up unannounced for week long visits. They wanted to bed share with the kids during visits on school nights. They make plans with the kids and don’t consult us. During Covid, they would FaceTime the kids ALL day long. No joke, they wanted to talk for 4-6 hours a day with the kids. The vacation issue was the last straw. I finally had enough and pointed out that she never vacationed with her in-laws and took one trip ever with her own mother. Her response was things were different then. I get guilted anytime we say no to anything.

It made me realize that I grew up as a people pleaser and never knew how to set boundaries. Their demands and lack of boundaries were truly impacting my mental and physical health. I decided not to care what they think of me anymore. I’m an adult and get to prioritize my own needs and family. I have made it clear they have to ask before visiting and that we are traveling alone this summer. They can no longer co-sleep with kids on school nights. They didn’t like my rules but they are now following them.

We seem to be in a better place for now. [/quote]

Where the heck is your spouse in this? Why are you dealing with this by yourself.[/quote]

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