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[quote=Anonymous]DD seems to always find a way to blame someone else for any issue impacting her. To the point where she angrily accuses the person who in reality has no fault in the situation.

The reason I ask if it’s inherent to personality is because DD is the type of person to ask for help with something and then redo what’s been done and complain that you made her late by her having to redo it to her liking. She may ask a sibling to fill her water bottle, they may add too much ice or too little water so she re does the work that’s been done and now she’s missed her bus and is loudly proclaiming that it’s their fault.

I see this blame game, as lying. Accusing someone else of something that is not their fault but your own.  That person did not make you late in the above example, it’s that you stopped to redo what they did for you that made you late.

I feel like I know adults who act this way but if there’s anything I can do to prevent this from being a lasting personality point of conflict, I would gladly.

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