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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems impersonal but an ubereats gift card is great so they can get what they want. [/quote]

+1 I think you should be careful about creating a sense of obligatory gratitude for this woman. I would avoid anything too lavish or homemade unless you’re close friends. A gift card and a short, upbeat note is perfect- don’t make more work for her by trying to ease her burden.[/quote]

I’m not understanding the tone of this response; you seem callous. How is sending a meal to someone who is sick “ creating a sense of obligatory gratitude” for her or creating more work for her? If I were sick I’d LOVE for someone to do this for me![/quote]

I guess everyone has different experiences. I have a friend who is an aggressive gift giver and expects adulation and  detailed descriptions of delight over every bit and bob. I wouldn’t want to return serving dishes and faux gush over your baked ziti, however appreciated. A thoughtful, measured thank you note for a gift card is less emotionally draining. [/quote]

Your friend has a love language of gifting. It truly energizes her to think about you enjoying your gift. Some (extended) texting is not so difficult and if it is too much, you can stop doing and she will stop giving. Not really a problem. [/quote]

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