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[quote=Anonymous]Yep. All of this fault-finding is not okay. I think it's bad enough that you should consider getting support to work through it and the effects on you and determine a direction. I doubt there is anything you can do to change his behavior. However, if he is not always like this, you may be able to lessen his acting out at home. While you figure out what else to do, try to stop and touch him whenever he starts this pattern. Slow down, breathe, and put one hand on his chest, or take his hand. Just be silent and calm. If it is an anxious cycle you can sometimes short-circuit it. If it is a nitpicking emotionally abusive cycle you are showing that it is not normal/OK and you will not respond by allowing yourself to be upset and put off balance. But really, get some support. [/quote]
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