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[quote=Anonymous]Wow. The level of disdain for your husband is what is driving you to loathe his small annoyances, and those are building to big irritations when you put them all together. I recommend trying to be mindful that it’s your attitude toward him that are magnifying how you feel about these small things and not the other way around. Recognize that things that are now so bothersome to you have always existed. But when you were I love with him—truly in love—you overlooked those things in your mind. So you really just need to determine if that’s the space you want to live in. You can choose to stay and be miserable. Or, you have two other options: 1-choose to stay and start acting AS IF you love him again…until you do! 2–choose to leave and allow him to be loved by someone else who will adore him in spite of the annoying things that now drive you crazy.[/quote]
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