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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I notice that he is very...spacy. He is always either on his phone, playing video games or playing the guitar or working. He does not spend much of his time present and in the moment. He leaves cabinet doors open; if he takes something out, he will make a pile of them on the counter. In the bathroom there are bottles of finished products or medicine that he never throws away. The finished toilet paper rolls are lined up above the toilet. His clothes are strewn all along his side of the bedroom.

His office has tons of unhanged certificates and diplomas. Piles upon piles of papers, books, magazines, receipts.

He lives in his head and does not live in reality. All conversations are about theory, art, books, music. No thought to life planning or logistics.

Is this a personality type? a disorder?[/quote]

Could be ADHD. Could be that he is lazy.

Either way, it doesn't sound NEW. Why did you marry him if he doesn't live in reality or think about life planning?[/quote]

OP here...at 24 I did not give much thought to life planning either. At 35 however his spacyness is very concerning. He has no sense of time or life phases. He just exists in his own thoughts and time-space continuum. [/quote]

I don’t think this is a really good explanation.  I got married at 23.  I could clearly see my husband’s strengths and weaknesses because… a 23 year old is an adult.  I was an adult.  You were too.  So now it’s a matter of working with him or leaving him.  But don’t pretend that because you were 24 you just couldn’t see what was in front of you.[/quote]

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