Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "If you throw a baby or wedding shower, are you also expected to give a gift?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP, just tell them you already bought a gift so you can't go in on the group gift. Then go buy something small. [/quote] I agree with this and agree you can get something pretty small; order something from Etsy so you have the cache of something special/handmade, while not needing to spend a lot. It sounds like you have already been very generous! If the rest of the group has something big they want to buy, how many people are chipping in for it? They can all just add a little more to their individual contributions and get the item; don't let them feel like they *need* you to contribute or else they can't get it. Of course they can get it! What they mean is that they don't want to have to spend more money, but it sounds like you've done way more than your share already. Don't give it a second thought and tell them you already got her something else. Stand firm![/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
