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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, I lost a child 18 months ago so I’m far from objective. But the whole discussion of fault and bad parenting here is horrifying and heartbreaking and really beyond cruel. Your sister has suffered a devastating loss. Please be a human being and put aside (1) whatever toxic comment was made by the young cousin to your own child and (2) your very petty and foolish thoughts that she should have controlled her child and prevented her child’s death. Your thoughts protect you and make YOU feel better, as if you are inoculated against death. You are not. If you are wise, use this as a teachable moment for your child that whatever bad incident occurred with the other cousin in the past, that cousin is still deserving of support. And for godsake apologize for not moving heaven and earth to get to the funeral. [/quote] This. How the child died is irrelevant. I'm sorry for your loss PP. [/quote]
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