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[quote=Anonymous]I hated kids for most of my life. I didn’t spend much time around them. Like you, When I did it was usually noticing when they were screaming on an airplane or behaving like spoiled brats at a restaurant. I never cared about being a mother or wife at all. Once I got past my mid 20s, my mindset changed. I decided I wanted kids. It took a very long time to find a man who would be a suitable father. Now parenting is the best thing in my life. There is nothing I love more than spending time with my kids. It is the most rewarding and fulfilling experience. I wish I would have started younger so that I could have more. I expected to hate caring for babies, but I actually enjoyed it most of the time. I wouldn’t like taking care of others people’s babies. It is an entirely different feeling when it’s your own. Or maybe I am just selfish. One caveat is that spouse selection is very important. If my spouse was not involved and supportive I may feel differently. [/quote]
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