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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Few people are "their authentic selves" anywhere, whether in professional or social contexts. They adapt to their surroundings, to fit in and to be compatible. They often behave differently when alone. The extent of such adaptation depends on just how far out of the norm you are. If you're too different, more effort is needed to act compatibly, and if that effort is too extreme to tolerate you're in the wrong environment. Recognize that adaptation to one's surroundings is an essential skill for professional success, and without it you're likely to stall out. If you can no longer adapt to your particular environment, it's time to change your job, accepting the financial and professional consequences that change implies (which may be for better or for worse). [/quote] op - see i find the first part of your assertion odd. I have worked in many environments where I did not have to put on a veneer, they just weren't 'corporate' in this way. And I am mostly my authentic self in my social life. I have managed to climb the ladder despite this. But your second point is correct; it is what it is and if the tension between the culture and my personality is such that the effort is too great, I have no choice but to find a plan b[/quote]
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