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[quote=Anonymous]Inspired by a related post. When should someone divorce if they have kids?

I am divorced with a kid. As I experience the fallout from divorce I question rather I made the right decision.

The reason I divorced is because exDH and I fought constantly. My existence seemed to just infuriate him. on more than one occasion he hit/choked me in front of our kid (nothing that sent me to the hospital or had visible bruises). Our child never got to see us resolve conflict and I felt defeated. I tried couples and individual counseling. Talking about our issues on made exDH more angry and he would lash out after sessions. I became extremely depressed, literally suicidal. He would say mean things to me so regularly that my kid thought I was trash and I did too.

So what day you Dcmoms was I selfish to divorce? I miss family holidays together. I’m sad that my kid has to pay the economic price. I’m sad my grandkids won’t be born into an in tact family. Maybe I could’ve held it together for a few more years after our kid got older and maybe then things would’ve turned around.[/quote]

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