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[quote=Anonymous]This needs real consequences if he isn’t going to do better. I would start with counseling. He needs to understand why this isn’t okay. Have you told him it hurts you and makes you feel neglected? Make sure that you are talking to hin in a way that makes it clear that this isn’t just a preference for you. This is destructive behavior and makes you feel alone and like his caretaker which is not a marriage. I would withdraw anything that you are doing that makes him comfortable if he refuses to change after these conversations. Stop making him dinner, doing his laundry, or anything else that he benefits from. Just worry about yourself and your children if you have any. He needs to understand what this feels like. [/quote]
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