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[quote=Anonymous]Helppppp

I've always felt down that there isn't an area of our house for me which I have vocalized. The spare bedroom w ensuite bath is DH's office (and bathroom by default), the den was always the kids playroom. Well, I'm starting a new job this week WFH and I spent the last 4 weeks making the playroom into an office and reading space for myself. I put so much love into it and really FINALLY created a space for me. I went in there to start work this morning and DH "surprised" me by changing some things around like faced my desk a different direction, hung some new things on the walls and added other random things around the room- a garbage can (jet black in my light cheerful space), huge printer (also jet black and I don't need a printer), a new ugly lamp with super bright bulbs, some thick black industrial looking hooks screwed into the wall etc. Then he left a really sweet note on my desk about how proud he is of me and that I deserve this job and stuff.

But all I want to do is cry. I realize I'm being ungrateful, but the space felt so perfect and like me and I haven't had anything (we share a car, I've never had an office at home or work, I share a bathroom with the 3 small kids, our master bedroom is tiny 12 x 13) to myself in over 10 years.

Do I say something or just stay quiet and suck it up?[/quote]

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