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[quote=Anonymous]I'm going to try to make a really long story short. Basically my boyfriend is traveling for a work trip. We have been talking about taking the next step in our relationship and moving in together. Then the other night we had a big fight and I slept in his spare bedroom, which is upsetting for him because he really loves to cuddle. The next morning he basically told me he was reconsidering being together because we argue all the time (which is true). He's also under a lot of stress at work, possibly having to go back to school to get a certification, etc, and he gave this as a reason for why maybe we shouldnt be together- that I wouldnt want to wait for him. I reassured him that I did and wanted to be together, even if that meant long distance for a while.
Anyway... cut to today.  He's been on a work trip for a few days which was scheduled, but contact has been relatively sparse and I feel like he doesnt text me anywhere near as much as usual.  Is this just the death knell for our relationship? I really love him but it almost feels like he's pulling away, even though he told me he was committed to me, wanted to be with me, and assured me that he was in it for the long term.  [/quote]

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