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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not to sound rude, but [b]if it's not your "fault," then who's is it?[/b] I know it's hurtful to hear, but only you control getting that job. It sounds like you hit a wall and maybe slacked off on applying. Listen, I get it, if I got let go, I would have an impossible time finding a job, so I feel for you. But nonetheless, it's still on you, so he's not wrong. He may be a jerk, but he's not wrong.[/quote]

Why does it have to be anyone's fault? Whose fault is it that our dog tore his ACL yesterday coming up the stairs? He's done that a million times and there was nothing out of the ordinary about yesterday, it just happened. It doesn't sound like OP is to be blamed for being let go from her old job, and she can't just snap her fingers and create a new ideal position. I'm also in a niche field and being fired terrifies me because even though I am incredibly good at my job and have a ton of experience, there are only so many positions for people with my qualifications, so how would it be my fault if they were all filled? Sure, I could get a waitressing job again like I did in college, but I doubt OP's husband would be happy with that. [/quote]

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