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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like leaving dirty dishes or food wrappers around, leaves amazon package bags in mail area, gets out junk bin to get batteries and leaves out whole bin, wet towels on bed etc etc etc

Assuming you've asked for change and they haven't and that they have other redeeming qualities.  If you're in this situation, what do you do? Leave all the junk out forever? pick up after them? pick it up but put all in one place for them to deal with? ask them to do a major sweeo through every few days?

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If he won’t do it make him hire a maid or housekeeper, and manage their time and frequency per week.

[b]Obviously his parents didn’t teach him responsibility nor check into treating any ADHD or ASD[/b]

What value does he contribute to the household and house itself? [/quote]

Don't blame the parents. For some this is just who they are. I have 3 boys and 2 see their messes and clean them and put things away and 1 does not no matter how I follow up/give consequences. I pity his future spouse. I pity them because I was that spouse until I couldn't be anymore.[/quote]

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