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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Aldo I would try to simplify your life so someone could be home most of the day. Work from home maybe or get a job close by. Less hours too.[/quote] I would love for this to be me (the wife in the relationship), but I am more than halfway through vesting in some substantial retirement benefits that will benefit our family in the long term. I would be leaving significant money (probably more than a million dollars, plus health care costs) towards retirement security on the table if I made a change. DH likes going to the office. [/quote] Ok, I’m the poster with one kid with ID and the other had cancer. Your husband not wanting to change his job because he “likes” the office isn’t a great sign. Somebody either has to be flexible or you need a whole bunch of money for a third set of hands. [/quote]
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