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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are full of crap, OP.  At the very best, you are thinking of different women as if they were the same person.  
The women I know who are divorced or widowed and complain about “all men” have no interest in dating or getting remarried.  
The women who are interested in dating post-divorce generally feel that they married poorly the first time or that they changed or grew in some way and are no longer compatible with their spouse, but don’t have a chip on their shoulder about all men.  
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You are correct in some way. We will have to agree to disagree that both men and women have very different views about divorce. I know a few (not generalizing about all men) men who are divorced and in all cases infidelity and spousal abuse were not the reason. These men while they don’t deny their shortcomings I guess felt that their ex wives got bored or didn’t appreciate them enough and and compared their failed marriages to other successful marriages. Women of course view it differently. Namely the vast majority of these divorced women felt (maybe they are right or wrong I don’t know) that they gave their exes millions of chances to make changes and they didn’t. Having said that women are still the ones filling for divorce in 80% of cases, so it is fair to say they are the ones constantly evaluating the Union. [/quote]

So, how do the men feel about divorce?  You only told me that the women were unhappy and filed.  Are men against divorce?  Do they generally just not care much or really think about their wives and families?  [/quote]

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