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[quote=Anonymous]Hi All.

I was raised christian, and in adulthood do not practice a religion. My daughter has been invited to a bat mitzvah and I need advice on what is expected, what is appropriate, etc. If you wouldn't mind giving me a quick education or some advice I would so appreciate it.

The invitation is for a day long series of events, starting with the torah service at 10, followed by a kiddush lunch, and then an evening party that ends at 10:30 pm. My daughter is friends (through school) with this girl, but our families don't know each other.

My questions:
- Is it expected or assumed that my daughter would attend all events, only some? 
- If attending the full day isn't an option, is it offensive to say that my daughter could only come to some portion of the events? (I am very concerned about inadvertently being offensively clueless.)
- Should I assume that a parent would be included in the invitation, or just my daughter?
- If my daughter attends the service and lunch (in addition to the party), what do I need to know about appropriate dress, what to expect, how to be respectful/appropriate during the events?
- Is there a customary gift?

I know my kids will receive several invitations like these and I am concerned that I respond appropriately and respectfully, that I am able to tell my kids what to expect and how to behave, and that I don't sound thoughtless or inappropriate with rsvps or questions.

Thanks for any advice you might offer, I am grateful to have a forum like this as a resource![/quote]

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