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[quote=Anonymous] Ex-dh and I are both in FERS, same pay grade at same agency. When we got divorced 2 years ago, our order stated that I get 50% of his pension and survivors benefits. He gets 50% of my pension and survivors benefits (identical orders). I guess we didn't really think about this, but now-both of us would rather have just kept our own pension and survivors benefits. Also, it states that if I, or he, remarries before 55, the married one does not get survivor benefits. I'm not planning to remarry but he may want to. We live in FL (for legal reference). Is it possible, or even legal, for us to change the order? Or is that not doable? I just don't like the idea of thinking about him in my retirement planning. We're amicable, but I don't want to consider him LOL. What happens if one of us retires first? Yes, I'm kicking myself for not understanding this 2 years ago, and he doesn't understand it at all. All the other stuff is done (the tsp stuff).[/quote]
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