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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“I love you and I’m here for you but I’ve said all I can say on this topic and the ball is in your court. Until you go through with it, I can talk about other things, but not this. I’m not mad, but you know what to do and I love you so it’s hard to see you not do it.”

And stick to it![/quote]

I had to do this with my sister when she was about to up and quit her job and move cross country with a borderline mentally abusive philandering a-hole who she kept telling me she was breaking up with. I spent so much time talking to her about the situation and she’d psych herself up to leave him, but then he’d apologize.

I eventually had an I love you, you know how I feel, I think this is a huge mistake and u cannot discuss this anymore convo. I think being an endless sounding board enables them to talk themselves into circles and not leave.

Thankfully my sister wasn’t married, there were no kids, and no shared finances. She came to her senses and finally dumped him before moving.

Obviously divorce is more complex, but OP’s sister seems to have paralysis by analysis at this point.[/quote]

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