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[quote=Anonymous]My sister disowned me and my other sister yesterday over a facebook post.  Well, that's not the whole reason.  Both of my younger sisters are engaged, Sister A for 2.5 years, and Sister B for 2 months.  B started planning immediately, and then picked the season (fall of next year) that A apparently had in her head, but hadn't begun to actually start planning. A got mad at B, and so I told them to chat about it and figure it out. Then A got mad at me. Time passes, I think they have figured it out, but A decides to bully sister B on facebook about anything she posts, and I make the mistake of saying, Simmer down" and then sister A says she's never speaking to either of us again. It went from simmer down, to you ruined my life in a matter of seconds.

I know she got lots of "why can't you be like oldest sister" and in her quest to differentiate herself from me she got in a lot of trouble, which she has started blaming me for, drinking, etc etc., things I can't actually be held responsible for, logically, but now I'm not sure. Was it my fault that she saw me going to parties and not get in trouble? Did I actually ruin her life?   I'm sure I wasn't the perfect big sister, but I do remember trying to set a good example for my younger sisters, which I know backfired on lots of occasions. The thing is, I have a 6 month old son that she adores.  I don't want her to not be in her nephew's life. I don't want to miss her wedding.  I don't want her to regret missing sister B's wedding. I'm now terrified to have another child - what if they grow up to hate each other.  Totally illogical, but that's where my head is right now.  I'm heartbroken. I'm venting.

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