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What made her tell you now? Or did you find out some other way?

Big whoop you bought a nice ring.

OP relationships are not about what you buy.

If they are they never last.
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OP here. She got a text from her ex-boyfriend. He shouldn’t have that because she changed her phone plan at the start of our relationship and they were broken up for several months.

He texted her and I saw the text. She said “ babe..who is that because she was chopping up veggies”. He said his name and asked if it was still her number. Texted again how he would love to get together and talk if she’s single. 
I asked how he had her number because they were already broken up when she changed it. She admitted that she texted him early on in our relationship and she ended up meeting up and sleeping with him one night. It only happened once and it was about 6-8 weeks into our relationship.

We had not had an exclusive talk but I asked if she was seeing anyone else before we slept together and she said no. I told her I wasn’t either. We had already been sleeping together and not seeing anyone else when she slept with her ex.

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OP here. I realize I probably made very little sense. My mind is going crazy right now.

She broke up with her bf months before we got together. They had no contact. She changed her phone plan and phone number right around our first date.

She got a text from her ex ( a number he shouldn’t have) asking if it was still her number and how he would like to get together if she was single.

I pressed her on how he would have her number and she admitted that her FB messaged her around that time and gave him her number. They met up to talk and ended up sleeping together. It was only one time and she told him she was seeing someone else. They hadn’t talked since then.

We didn’t have an exclusive talk per se but we both said we weren’t dating anyone else before we slept together and continued to sleep together and build a relationship. [/quote]

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