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[quote=Anonymous]I get where you are coming from but an actual date is really inappropriate. Like some people would consider it cheating, other people would view it as the obvious last step before actual cheating. Either way, most monogamously married people are going to view that negatively.

That said, I do understand missing that feeling from dating when you are well into your marriage. One safe option (assuming you will never cross the line with it) is look for ways to engage in innocent flirtatious behavior in your everyday life with people you would never actually go out with. It can be very mild flirtation. Like I enjoy the back and forth with the barista at my usual coffee place, and I think he enjoys it too. It is public and subtle and has no danger of going anywhere sketchy, but it will give me a little mood and self-esteem boost when I see him. That kind of thing.

But I would never go out on a date with him, no way. In fact if he asked I'd be mad because it would ruin what we have, which is totally innocent but satisfying to me, and I'd have to start going to another coffee shop to avoid him.

The key is to keep it all in the realm of "never going to happen, but fun to think about a little now and then." [/quote]

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