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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is everything a struggle or just specific things.  Kids don't need a bath every day if you're not slathering them with sunscreen, etc.  Can you limit bathtime to 2-3 times a week if it's a struggle.  A routine that your child struggles with is probably doubly worse at the end of the day when she's tired. I would identify where her issues are and see what things you can let go.  [/quote]

Agreed. Setting them up for success is better than any negotiation tactic. You can’t make a 4 yo like something they don’t like. Avoid as many power struggles as you can (food is a big one to try to get away from) and save it for things that absolutely require it.

Also I try to be accommodating in some small way if I can and that usually helps. Like I’ll say oh you don’t want a bath? Let’s be quick and easy. As long as you stand there in the tub I’ll quickly wash you with a cloth and rinse you myself, and we won’t do hair tonight. Deal?” Etc. That works more often than not.[/quote]

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